navigating the interplay of trauma and attachments pt. 3
hey friends! in this post, we’re diving into the final segment of a 3-part series. if you haven’t done so, start by reading part 1 and part 2. navigating the interplay of trauma and attachments is a key topic because it gives us what we need to truly heal both the energetic and the 3d aspects of any situation we’re experiencing in our lives. in part 1, we dove into the overview; in part 2, we got clear on directionality and its importance to the #bornawake™ operating system, and today in part 3 we will be diving into origin-informed healing, one of the foundational concepts of my old training course:complete.
at the most fundamental level, here’s today’s takeaway: if you want to be done with something for good, you need to resolve it at its origin.
seems crazy obvious, right? here’s the thing. how do you identify the origin? how do you know when you’ve truly found the place something started?
before creating course:complete (and now the portal), i always felt like i was fumbling around in the dark trying to resolve situations or experiences. i would listen to past life regression meditations, i would take this training or attend that workshop. sometimes i would feel better but i never really understood the roadmap. it was like being blindfolded and driven to random destinations in the cosmos, and sometimes they offered relief.
i didn’t have a framework to understand densities, different levels of vibration that things exist on. i didn’t know how to identify where something was originating from. my perspective was: either 3d, or non-3d. it didn’t occur to me that non-3d reality could be categorized, mapped out, and understood. that i could use my intuitive abilities to identify what density something was operating on, and use that to find the origin - for good.
when we talk about origin-informed healing i want you to imagine a world with more nuance than just 3d or non-3d. i want you to imagine that you, too, have the capacity to learn and identify where in non-3d reality something is operating. because you do have that capacity! and if you need some guidance, just check out the portal to be walked through the process step-by-step.
the reason this is super important in healing trauma completely is because often 3d trauma we experience ties back into a karmic dynamic, a past-life dynamic, a soul mission contract, etc etc. as a bornawake the 3d healing solutions we’re given to address/heal trauma we experienced in childhood doesn’t tie in these origin aspects. and so it can feel like we recreate our childhood in different dynamics later, even though the emotional charge around them is GONE! it’s very confusing to have a dynamic repeat itself after you’ve emotionally resolved it. a lot of times this causes doubt, shame and self-judgment in #bornawakes®. how can they feel healed from their childhood experience if it’s still perpetuating?
however once you understand the importance of directionality (top-down energetics) combined with origin-informed healing, it all starts to make sense! for a dynamic to TRULY complete, and for that completion to be expressed through the #bornawake® operating system into our 3d lives, it’s imperative that we start with the origin experience (ie high density contract) and work our way DOWN into the 3d experience, completing and releasing that last. once that final piece locks in (handling the origin and pulling the mastery forward), the situation will stop recreating itself in your 3d life.
i hope you noticed the explanation for why something can continue playing out after the emotional charge is gone. that’s because emotions exist in 3d but not necessarily on the higher densities. you can have a contract that’s wreaking havoc in your 3d life that’s totally neutral emotionally. usually when this is the case the only 3d emotion you’ll have is frustration, shame, confusion because you can’t understand ‘why did i create this again?’ but there’s no emotion tied to the experience ITSELF. the experience just makes you feel...apathy.
this is in stark contrast to the teachings designed for awakening beings and transcendence/ascension culture. in those spaces you’re essentially taught to track your ‘work’ based on what feels emotionally charged. for #bornawakes®, because we are not DISCOVERING the reality that we are more than our emotions, it doesn’t help us to use them as an entry-point. we’re not invested in our emotions as real, so we don’t need to process them to access detachment. instead, we need tools that support our natural perspective: detached from emotions, curious about them, able to feel them but always seeing them as illusion/just part of the game of 3d.
this is also why any practice designed purely for healing 3d trauma, eventually leaves us feeling like we’re going in circles. our energy doesn’t move from the density of emotions UP to the lightness of intuition/clarity; it moves DOWN from the absolute INTO 3d. awakening beings have a bottom-up directionality, which means that if they support their energy system in building momentum at the 3d level, that momentum will naturally unfold upwards, leading to realizations, clarity, and the resolution of high-density contracts.
in contrast, when we focus on 3d the momentum doesn’t build - it stalls. there is nowhere for it to go but out into 3d reality. so we get stuck looping between our 3d emotional healing and our 3d reality experience. there’s nowhere else for the energy to express. this is why we need to start at the origin/high-density contract. that’s what allows momentum to build and move downwards, so we can eventually do the needed 3d healing in a way that our system can actually integrate.
to bring this into your life: rather than tracking your emotions, start looking for where your emotions feel in conflict with the perception you hold about the world. for example, where does the idea that we are creating our own reality feel sticky or unfair? where does life not feel like a game, but instead feel hard and rife with struggle? these are entry-points for #bornawakes® as they support us in bringing our detached perspective down, so we can live it.
something else i see a lot for #bornawakes®: not acknowledging or dealing with the 3d reality. we get addicted to completing karmic contracts as a way to avoid the emotions being stored in our human operating systems. this is just as dangerous to our growth as remaining in 3d. if you stay in the higher densities and never bring the energy down, you’ll never get to experience your energetic work expressed/materialized as a shift in your 3d reality.
we all know how terrible THAT feels - to spend hours in a healing session only to wake up the next day feeling back how you were before. completely discouraging. with this in mind — it’s imperative not to skip the final step of bringing the new awareness/understanding gleaned at the origin, FORWARD. this is where you look to see what’s required for your human (3d) operating system to hold the shift you’ve just locked in.
hopefully this clarifies how to work with attachments and trauma. if you want to dive deeper into this work make your way over to the portal. it’s our virtual library of activations, meditations, guided transformations and teachings designed for the bornawake operating system! you’ll be supported in pulling mastery forward, working with and fortifying your system’s top-down directionality, and completing aaaaaanything! $9.99/mo, cancel anytime. sign up here.
thanks for reading! questions/comments? don’t hesitate to reach out. we love topic requests, too! that’s it for now. until next time,
xx SPIRIT