how looking for signs keeps you stuck
hey guys!
spirit here. today we’re diving into a controversial topic, but i feel it’s very important for #bornawakes® especially! as #bornawakes® we are naturally tuned into other densities. we are comfortable connecting to guides, ancestors, angels... it can feel reassuring to rely on these beings, to know that we are supported and guided by forces we can sense. we are naturally drawn to exploring different spiritual traditions and paths of evolution/growth. and most of these advocate ‘trusting the universe,’ ‘surrendering,’ and looking for signs or mirrors from 3d in order to propel our growth.
as #bornawakes® we come in knowing how to do this... we can analyze signs, uncover the ‘message’ in 3d situations, etc. however when you’re born not to learn through experience, but instead to embody your mastery? waiting on signs or taking action based on them, doesn’t actually help you grow. this is for a few reasons...
1) 3d life is set up to propel growth/karmic learning. if you are not here to learn, all 3d life can ‘show’ you via signs, is the karmic dynamics you haven’t yet completed. all it can do is replay things you’ve already done. because there is nothing NEW that needs to be experienced by you this way. it cannot aid you in completing karma, beyond showing you where it’s incomplete. it cannot teach you, or give you what you’re missing.
2) when you look for signs from the universe, guides, ancestors etc... you are negating your OWN ability to HAVE THE ANSWERS. rather than cultivating your ability to receive the information you need to propel your upleveling WITHIN YOURSELF (check out the portal for practices + tools to do this), you are preserving the dynamic of seeking and chasing those answers from outside. this affirms the falsity that you are here to learn. if you are here to learn, you need 3d to be your teacher. if you are here to begin embodying your mastery in 3d? you need processes that affirm your mastery, and provide you with the tools to begin pulling those masteries forward so they can be expressed through the now.
if you’re new here i want to take a moment to note this quintessential difference between #bornawakes® and prior generations: prior generations are here on earth like a school. they are given experiences (in truth, they are giving them to themselves), and as a result of those experiences they gain MASTERIES. of skills, abilities, qualities - essential energetic attributes that support their evolution. in contrast, as #bornawakes® we have already accumulated all of the masteries we need. however many of them are stuck in other densities or past lives, replaying over and over as karma.
this is why we feel frustration and self-doubt at situations playing out in our 3d lives. we know we’ve already learned the thing, so we can’t understand why it’s happening again. it’s because we haven’t fully owned the mastery and released the situation/dynamic, from teaching it to us. (the portal has everything you need to complete this process).
3) the process of waiting on signs or surrendering to the universe was designed for beings still on the awakening path. every time you look for signs, base your actions on them, or wait on the universe you are affirming that you are here to awaken. you negate your mastery, again and again. this creates the experience of looping: feeling stuck on a merry-go-round of the same experience, again and again with different characters, props and scenery. every time you follow a sign you start the next cycle on the merry-go-round, which means every time you follow (or seek out) a sign you increase your self-doubt and your inner panic. why can’t you uplevel? why do you feel so awake, and get called an old soul, and give all your friends the solutions they need... but still can’t seem to change YOUR life? and then you look for another sign, which directs you towards ANOTHER karmic loop, and there you are again. feeling even worse about yourself.
the truth is, you’re probably afraid to own your mastery. i don’t blame you! i was afraid, too. i was afraid that if i admitted how AMAZING and POWERFUL i truly am - everyone would hate me. i was afraid that if i stopped creating or re-creating karma i would have to leave earth. you’d be surprised how many #bornawakes® carry this false narrative. it used to be true that if you completed your karma you had to leave, but earth is changing and so has the human operating system. as a #bornawake® you are here to support that shift in taking root on earth, by teaching your own human operating system to hold the frequency of the absolute. by being an embodiment of MASTERY - the absolute - in 3d.
the more you understand directionality the more you understand how it can be possible to own your mastery and remain incarnated. when awakening beings AWAKEN, their mission is completed and they leave. we’re not here to awaken so how could embodying our awake-ness possibly result in us being obligated to transcend? when we embody our awake-ness and focus on bringing it down and out, INTO 3D, we are stepping into alignment with our mission and supporting everyone else in beginning to have this option as well.
4) when you wait on signs, you put off taking responsibility for your reality. you keep playing the game that someone or something else is calling the shots. usually because you feel powerless to change your reality when you DO admit to yourself you’re creating it (enter - the portal. just sayin’.) when you put off taking responsibility for your reality you don’t actually have the power to change it. you’re stuck reacting and waiting around on signs, rather than dictating the progress and speed of change you make in your life. it’s a passive and ultimately painful way to live. it preserves victim consciousness and keeps you tied into dynamics of disempowerment and collective oppression.
if you don’t see the connection between waiting on signs and being hooked into these dynamics see what happens when you start asking yourself ‘why did I create this?’ if that question results in rage, frustration or inexplicable grief? congratulations! :) you’re not alone. you’re being shown where you have yet to process experiences of disempowerment. you’re receiving the opportunity to complete these dynamics so you can truly OWN YOUR MASTERY on an even deeper level. but yes - it’s uncomfortable AF. it’s uncomfortable for me, to write these things as a white woman born into enormous financial privilege. i had to release a LOT of shame and narratives around being the oppressor before I could even talk about this. that doesn’t mean that i don’t see or acknowledge the 3d reality of inequality occurring around me. it just means that i am not emotionally hooked into it, which frees my operating system to hold the frequency of a potential collective timeline WITHOUT these things. do you see the difference? wherever you’re still hooked in, you’re blocking yourself from anchoring the new. and that hurts all of us.
these are just some of the main ways that waiting on signs keeps you stuck. i hope it’s some good food for thought! does it resonate? let us know - we would love to hear from you!
that’s all for now. thanks for reading! go ahead and sign up for the portal here. until next time,
xx SPIRIT