re-negotiating a karmic contract in real time
have you ever met someone and instantly recognized their soul / essence? have you ever felt a deep resonance, curiosity and somehow that you already know, a complete or virtual stranger? how about taking a trip to a far-off place and feeling more at home there than anywhere you’ve ever been? or encountering someone in the randomest way and sensing that you both planned the meeting before incarnating?
when attachments, particularly karmic (read: soul level) attachments show up in my life they typically feel like, ‘hey now. pay attention. this is important.’
in my 10ish years teaching and facilitating 1:1 sessions i have noticed that many beings mistake this feeling for ‘we’re meant to be!’ or if it’s a job/opportunity, urge to travel etc, ‘this is my mission!’ when the truth is? you are being presented with an open attachment/karmic contract so that you have the opportunity to COMPLETE IT. at which point, you will be sovereign and clear to decide if it is truly aligned.
this article is specifically intended for beings who are currently facing an ‘it’s meant to be!’ karmic, this-is-important vibe situation, relationship or experience in their life.
how do you utilize the experience to complete the attachment, pull forward masteries and become a deeper embodiment of the absolute in 3d? besides which - how do you know what decision to make IN 3D? let’s dive in.
the first thing to understand is that YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR SOUL. especially when you’re new to this work, the soul level/density can feel like Source consciousness. it feels so expansive, and loving, and warm. in truth while it’s magical and fun to play with the soul level/density, your soul definitely has an agenda and a way it believes things need to be done. (see beyond the soul for more on this).
there are easier, more efficient possibilities available to you than the way the soul is accustomed to working. be aware that the feelings of recognition, importance and meant-to-be you are experiencing are engineered to get you to play out the attachment in your 3d life. why? because at the time the soul developed its approach to evolution, it was necessary to play things out in 3d to complete them.
the first step to re-negotiating a karmic contract in real time is to connect to the absolute and get clear on the terms and intentions of the contract as it currently stands. if you are a portal member use the ‘complete soul contracts’ activation. you can also utilize ‘connect to absolute self’ to ask questions and clarify the terms of the agreement. (not a portal member? sign up today).
the key thing to understand here is, never try to interpret or determine the terms of an open attachment by analyzing your 3d experience. don’t look to 3d to tell you what is probably/maybe occurring energetically. GET CLEAR IN THE ABSOLUTE. once you are fairly confident you’ve uncovered the terms, spend a little while contemplating how you feel about them.
common soul-level dynamics include TRADE-OFFS. ‘i can only be happy in my relationship if I move away from my family,’ ‘I have to sacrifice my free time in order to fulfill my mission,’ blah blah. the soul level/density is still very much immersed in polarity, and it shows.
through your contemplation it will most likely become obvious that you desire a better way. YAY! this is why this dynamic is showing up in your 3d life. to invite you to uplevel past the soul density/level, to one of wholeness.
next task: identify the dynamics, attachments and experiences hanging out with this contract that you desire to complete. take them through the relevant portal activations - this will depend on what gets triggered in you, trust your instincts.
as you complete each attachment and pull forward the connected masteries, the situation will start to feel a lot less murky. it may still feel interesting or appealing but the inexplicable PULL towards it will dissipate. more and more with each activation.
once you feel you’ve gleaned all the masteries from the situation and are no longer being sucked towards it karmically you have a choice. does the situation still feel exciting, relevant or supportive of your evolution? do you still desire this experience?
it’s usually a good idea at this point to spend some time IN the 3d experience, just seeing what it would be like. if you can’t fully experience it in 3d (for example: someone you have a crush on but deciding whether or not to pursue, feeling drawn to take a trip somewhere) spend time visualizing it and getting into the FEELING of the experience.
at this point the goal is to pay attention to any indicators of attachments or dynamics that are still open/snuck by, as well as to uncover how YOU truly feel about this experience outside of the soul’s influence. if you find yourself triggered or encountering additional attachments take them through the relevant portal activations and circle back.
whether you decide to pursue the experience or not the important takeaway is that you will be entering into the experience as a SOVEREIGN BEING. any decision you make will be based on true free will and your authentic desires, rather than the past returning to repeat itself.
once you have decided how you want to proceed, take the situation through ‘completing soul contracts’ ONE MORE TIME. this time set the clear intention of completing the ENTIRE relationship, its entire karmic/soul level mission. depending on your decision you will either...
a) release this being/job/opportunity/experience with love knowing the attachment/contract is fully complete, or...
b) clearly and definitively complete and release the CURRENT LEVEL of the relationship/job/opportunity/experience, giving it and all those involved the opportunity to come back together on your NEW LEVEL of consciousness.
if option (b) is what you are desiring, understand that free will governs all. you can create the conditions and opportunity for others to meet you at your new level, but it is ultimately up to them. additional work may be required to trust that if not this, something better. (we’ve got you covered on this in the portal too).
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xx SPIRIT